Saving a marriage that has deteriorated to the point of discussing divorce can be a major, uphill battle. You will need to decide if your particular relationship is worth saving before you set out to save it. You need to base your decision on what to do on the nature of your marital problems. If you find yourself in an abusive situation, then it would be in your best interests to get out of it. If your spouse is willing to work with you to solve minor problems that are plaguing your marriage, then you should do whatever is necessary to save it.
Every situation is different just like every person is unique, and you need to look deep to find the basic reasons why your own marriage may be floundering. The problem may be deeper than what you think. If your spouse is known to have been cheating on you, you can’t just blame the problems on him or her. You have likely done something to contribute to the problems and it’s best that you find it. While there are some people who just cheat to say they did, most marrieds having adulterous flings are doing it because of clear-cut reasons they are unhappy with their marriages. Men whose wives aren’t giving them enough sex at home will likely find an outside source.
Once you’ve thought over the reasons why your union isn’t as close as it once was, you need to discuss them rationally with your spouse. Don’t make the mistake of yelling with your partner because it won’t solve anything. Most men would rather not share their feelings openly, so women may need to do some prodding. You can expect your husband to shut down even more if you make the mistake of attacking him from the very beginning. If you feel anger taking over your discussion, give yourselves time to cool down before tackling the problems again.
You should try to reintroduce small, intimate moments that you have shared over the course of your relationship. Look to bring back small gestures such as quick hugs, small kisses, and holding hands because they will really begin to rebuild the bond that you once shared. Doc No. 34Sdlhgsdl -sds